Family Date Night Ideas That Are Creative, Fun and Cheap

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Are you looking for family date night ideas that are fun, but don’t cost an arm and a leg? Sometimes inexpensive Fun Recreation Ideas are hard to find.

These days it’s easy to spend a significant amount of money on date night or date day. Families often overspend their recreation budget, thinking they can’t cut these expenses and still have a good time.

But we challenge that notion. There are hundreds of ways to enjoy family time or a date night without dropping $100 to do it.

Consider what you’d pay for the following: a professional sporting event, a concert, a museum visit, a trip to the zoo, a first-run movie or a Renaissance festival.

The costs of admissions, gas, parking, meals, and souvenirs (that you must have!) quickly burn a hole in your wallet. Even simple activities like bowling, ice-skating, roller-skating or miniature golf can deplete your recreation budget if you’re not careful.

Budget Date Night Ideas & Fun Activities

We are convinced that meaningful, yet economical memories can be created with little or no cost if you know where to look. You may not do “dinner and a movie” like many other people, but you certainly can create interesting and enjoyable memories.

Some of our suggestions may sound like things a kid would do. Well, we think kids seem to have fun with anything from a cardboard box to a bucket of water.

Please read these ideas with an open mind. Perhaps, you’ll discover a wonderful new youthfulness.

Rather than publish a long list of ideas, we’re encouraging you to think about fun family date ideas and activities that fit into three different spheres:

  • Seasons
  • Holidays
  • Recurring Statewide or Local Events.

Seasonal Recreation Ideas

Unique activities are associated with each season of the year. Of course, many of these ideas are limited by your geographic location — ice fishing in the Arizona desert just won’t work.

Winter Family Activities

But, think about winter in other parts of the country. You could enjoy sledding, ice-skating, Christmas caroling, building snow forts, reading aloud a favorite book together by a crackling fire or having a snowball fight. In Arizona and Florida, picking citrus is an enjoyable winter family activity.

If you are in a colder region, visiting museums in your area could be a great way to stay out of the cold. Many museums have a “Free Day” once each month, or they have discount days for Veterans, Seniors or, kids. Just click here to search for “Free Museum Days Near Me.”

Economides Family picking citrus in their orchard.

Spring Family Date Nights and Activities

In springtime, outdoor dates or family activities could include visiting an arboretum, hiking through fields of wildflowers, the forest, desert or mountain trails, strawberry picking, and bird watching. We especially enjoy this season as our citrus trees are in full bloom.

Nothing compares to taking a walk while the smell of fresh citrus blossoms wafts through the air and hundreds of butterflies dart about.

Summer Family Activities

A baby playing in a small pool splashing water from a cup.

Fun Date Ideas in the Summer include:

  • Picnics at a local park
  • Hiking (in Phoenix we leave the city in the summer and hike in the mountains where it’s cooler)
  • Boating at an urban lake
  • Waterskiing
  • Camping
  • Barbecues with juicy corn on the cob and watermelon
  • Swimming. We do lots of this.

One of our favorite mini-dates is to escape to our pool and sit and talk after the kids are in bed.

Fall Family Activities

As the weather cools in the fall, consider apple picking, making annual holiday preparations, going on a hayride, taking walks in the park and raking a humongous pile of leaves and jumping into it. You’ll laugh and feel like a kid again.

No matter where you live, budget recreation ideas planned around the seasons of the year can capture your imagination and your heart.

Holiday Date and Recreation Ideas

Virtually every month contains its holidays. So if you’re looking for inspiration and a reason to celebrate, just check your wall calendar. Many of us are so busy that some holiday celebrations fall by the wayside — it may be time for you to revive some.

Winter Holiday Family Dates and Activities

Throwing confetting on New Years Eve.

On New Year’s Eve, we usually host a party. We invite families with their kids and everyone brings food so our preparation is minimal. We play Charades and throw confetti at midnight.

Other years we host a New Years Day Open House and Game Day.

Check out our blog about planning a New Year’s Eve Party here.
Also, check out our Pinterest board For New Year’s, it has tons of great ideas!

Martin Luther King Jr. Day follows later in January—it’s an opportune time to visit a black cultural museum and to learn about the history of slavery and segregation in our country. Many cities host breakfasts or luncheons to celebrate Dr. King’s impact on society. There’s nothing wrong with a morning or lunchtime date, is there?

February is host to President’s Day and Valentine’s Day. Celebrating Washington’s and Lincoln’s accomplishments and noteworthy character attributes can be rewarding. We don’t usually do a date night on Valentine’s Day — it’s too crowded and most restaurants won’t accept coupons that night.

So we go out the prior or following night when they’re less crowded. If you enjoy making homemade cards, they are always appreciated. An outdoor mall near our home hosts a “Lovers’ Lane” with free horse-drawn carriage rides, chocolate tasting and dancing to big band music.

For some great Valentine Crafts and Decor, check out this page!
For some wonderful dessert ideas, look for the best brownie and raspberry meringue recipe on this page!

Spring Holiday Family Activities

The Jewish festival of Purim — which precedes Passover — provides another opportunity for a different kind of costume party.

March or April ushers in Easter and Passover. Many churches host musicals celebrating these occasions. Years ago, an iris farm in Phoenix gave tours when the flowers were blooming — unfortunately, it has closed down.

Plastic easter eggs on outdoor lanterns.
We set up an Easter egg hunt for our grandkids (and adult kid) in our back yard each spring

For some awesome Spring/ Easter Crafts & Decor, check out this page!
And for more Easter ideas, visit our Pinterest Board by the same name.

In May we commemorate mothers and our fallen war heroes. Mother’s Day is a man’s opportunity to honor his wife and mother with some of their favorite things. Consider a special breakfast, cards from the kids, and a favorite dinner, cooked by someone other than mom.

Summer Holiday Family Activities

Even if you don’t have a mother, you can take the time to say thanks to an older woman who has influenced your life.

The three-day weekend of Memorial Day provides an ideal opportunity to host a barbecue, cheer for our troops at a parade, visit a veteran’s cemetery and place flags on the graves, attend a church picnic or one of many other commemorative events.

Celebrate Father’s Day in June with the dads in your life or visit a man of character who has influenced your life.

July brings fireworks and picnics. One of our favorite memories is celebrating Independence Day in a small Arizona mountain town. We were there for their first ever town celebration.

The veterans’ band played. It was reminiscent of the Mayberry town band in the Andy Griffith Show. The fireworks were spectacular, the people friendly and the weather beautifully cool.

Fireworks over the lake at Gainey Ranch.
Fireworks over the lake at Gainey Ranch in Scottsdale.

For Summer Crafts and Decor, visit this page on our website.

Fall Holiday Family Activities

Labor Day, celebrated in early September, provides a three-day weekend for camping, barbecues or just lounging around. And Grandparent’s Day gives us a reason to travel, spend time visiting or send a card to our parents.

If you want to feel like a kid, plan your Halloween costume early in October.

By the end of the month, you can don your costume and go visit neighbors or go to a Halloween costume party. You’ll be surprised how much fun it is to go door to door and talk with laughing friends. If that idea scares you, try planning a costume party or go to a church-sponsored harvest festival.

Candles and halloween cups for a squirt gun game.
Each year for Halloween we do a fun fall festival for our kids and grandkids.

At Thanksgiving, we reach out to people who have no family in town. We shoot fake turkeys, play “Spoons”, eat lots of turkey and side dishes and eat lots of pie.

Shooting turkey targets on Thanksgiving.

For some Fall/ Autumn DIY Projects and Decor, visit this page.

December offers lots of free—or inexpensive—Date Night ideas activities. Most high schools and colleges host holiday concerts with free admission or very inexpensive. There are always free, church-sponsored musicals.

Listening to a free concert at Scottsdale Community College.

Community-sponsored productions of A Christmas Carol or the Nutcracker often provide admission with a donation to Toys for Tots or a food bank.

Our Christmas season wouldn’t be complete without a night of driving around looking at Christmas lights.

Even in colder climates, you can find some great fun recreation and family date ideas in the winter. Next, we’ll switch gears and talk about recurring events in your area.

Annual Local Activities

Every community offers events that occur on a yearly basis. In our area we have:

– A hot-air balloon race in January.

– A huge used-book sale at a large coliseum in downtown Phoenix in February. People line up for hours before the doors open to ensure they get “first dibs” on some great titles.

– Several free horse shows in February and March.

– An open house at a state wildlife rehabilitation center in spring and fall. The first time we attended, we were amazed to learn about the numerous creatures that we hadn’t realized lived in our desert.

– The Arizona State Fair every October.

Scout-O-Rama in November — this is a huge event where Cub and Boy Scouts display scout skills and hands-on activities for kids and adults. You could experience amateur rocketry, delicious Dutch-oven cooking, obstacle courses, plant conservation information, native wildlife demonstrations and so much more.

– A myriad of college and high school spring concerts and recitals in May.

Beth and Curtis from Spokane, WA, wrote, “Most universities publish dates and times of their recitals in the local newspaper or online. One of our most enjoyable evenings was spent in a university recital hall listening to a solo tuba recital. It was memorable and quite entertaining. And, best of all, it was absolutely free.” If you ever get the opportunity to hear one of our military bands perform, don’t miss it. They are phenomenal — and free, too.

Where to Find Budget Date Night Recreation Ideas

Keeping a watchful eye on your local newspaper calendar of events will give you plenty of ideas for things to do. It seems there is something special every week of the year, and many are free. Another great resource is the AAA Tour Book for your state. They list activities city by city. Just be sure to verify all the information.

Volunteering can provide you with free recreation, too. Our daughter Becky regularly volunteers at the All-Arabian Horse Show in Scottsdale. Her few hours of volunteer labor provide her with passes to daytime events.

We’ve also volunteered at our local botanical garden during their annual luminaria holiday festival. We received free admission, heard excellent music and helped usher for a wonderful event.

Heck, there are even fun things you can do in the comfort of your own home.

Rather than overspending your budget, take the challenge and find inexpensive, fun date night and recreational activities to enrich your life. You only go around once in life, why not do it for free!

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2 thoughts on “Family Date Night Ideas That Are Creative, Fun and Cheap

  1. Agnes Peterson-Read

    Coming from a family of volunteers, I feel that it is great to volunteer with some local group or agency on different holidays or holiday weekends. In the valley of the sun, HandsOn Greater Phoenix provides opportunities for individuals and families to volunteer. Martin Luther King Day (weekend) is celebrated with Acts of Services throughout the valley. Also, cultural museums offer education about the contributions of blacks/African-Americans throughout America and the world. Thank you for All you do!

    1. Steve Economides Post author

      Agnes thanks for the reminder to look for different local groups to volunteer with. We never heard of HandsOn Greater Phoenix.

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