Gift Giving for Kids, it’s an age-old question. Should we give our kids money for Christmas or should we just give them presents? You might be surprised by our advice to this family!
Question About the Holidays and Gift Giving for Kids
I have your three books and have read about the MoneySmart Kids System that teaches kids to manage their own money; I have a question regarding giving money for holidays (to your children). Do you give money to your children for holidays or do you have a rule to not give money?
Our Strategy with Gift Giving for Kids
We don’t usually give money to our kids for Christmas. This is because our family enjoys the tradition of opening presents. Yes, it is more work for us, but so much more fun!
We shop all year long, looking for things we know our kids would appreciate. We store the presents in bins in our Gift Closet.
How we Budget for Presents
We do set a dollar amount that we spend on each gift recipient. But the cool thing is that because we shop all year long, we’re able to lavish them with a larger number of gifts.
This is because we can usually find things at steep discounts as we watch, wait and shop all year long. While a flat dollar amount might be easier, being able to give lots of presents for the same amount is more rewarding. And our kids certainly enjoy opening lots of presents.
Years ago we created a Gift Budget worksheet. While it may sound a little materialistic, we used that worksheet to establish a spending amount per child. And we calculated a total gift budget by taking the number of kids X the amount for Christmas and Birthday presents.
We also used the Gift Budget Worksheet to plan for everyone that we wanted to buy a present for around the holidays.
We not only included Christmas gifts but also included birthdays and amounts for wedding and shower gifts, baby showers, and teacher gifts.
We take the total amount and divide it by 12 to establish our monthly gift budget.
Saving throughout the year has allowed us to give gifts without worrying about overspending.
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Sometimes We Do Give Money as a Gift
We also try to find appropriate presents for birthdays.
Depending on how busy we are, sometimes we simply give money. This happens if we know the kids are saving for something in particular.
Our older married kids get a gift card to one of their favorite stores or restaurants. Our son John is a new homeowner so he loves Home Depot gift cards.
Are They Financially Responsible?
One thing to keep in mind is whether giving cash as a gift will help or hinder.
If your child is irresponsible with money or has an addiction or another emotional spending issue, cash may not be a good gift.
In this type of situation, we usually give practical gifts like food baskets or gift cards for gas or groceries.
If they are financially responsible and we know they are saving toward a goal, we would give cash with a note that encourages them toward reaching that goal.
Sometimes we Give Gift Cards
Of course, when buying gift cards we try to find a way to get some sort of discount. We’ve found that Kroger Grocery Stores usually run a promotion during the holidays where they give you quadruple (4x) gas points for each gift card purchased.
As a result, buying a $25 gift card translates into 100 points or 10 cents off of a gallon of gas. It takes 30 gallons to fill our tank, so our savings are $3. It’s not much, but every little bit helps.
There are some great retailers or restaurants that offer perks for buying gift cards. Red Robin gives $5.00 off $25.00 and Sweet Tomatoes/ Soup Plantation gives out a free meal coupon if you buy $50.00 worth of gift cards. (you can buy 2 $25.00 cards).
We earn free gift cards through Swagbucks and have given these as gifts to our kids.
Sometimes we Give Experiences
Disappearing presents are also an option.
Things like tickets to a show, concert or fun park are always considerations.
Or it could be homemade certificates for a special one-on-one time with Mom or Dad. Or a trip to see Grandma and Grandpa (if they live out of town).
Gift Giving Wrap Up
The bottom line is to plan ahead and give gifts that empower your kids to reach their goals.
Gift giving for kids should be an overflow of our hearts, not out of compulsion. Give your kids the best gift you can . . . be available to them. . . that costs very little financially but means a lot relationally.
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