Family Christmas Traditions can occur whether your family is large or small, and young or old. Establishing traditions can enhance relationships, evoke warm feelings and create memories that last a lifetime.
Over the years, we’ve read numerous books about the value of family traditions. They add stability to the yearly calendar as the kids eagerly anticipate and participate in the preparations for each special event.
Our Family Christmas Traditions really are a “month-full” of activities and routines that we’ve established over the course of many years. Here are a few of the many we have:
Holiday Music / Performances
There are many holiday musical performances this time of year. We attend at least one of the following each year:
- The Nutcracker Ballet (a local ballet school performs it with admission being a toy for the Toys for Tots program)
- A church musical (there are dozens in our area)
- Handel’s “Messiah” put on by a local symphony or church.
- Several resorts have holiday light and music presentations open to the public with live carolers, ice skating, and gingerbread house displays.
- Christmas Parades (our favorite one is in northern Arizona – the annual Prescott Christmas Parade)
Most communities are full of holiday events – doing a little research could help you find a perfect one for your family.
Gingerbread House Building with Nana
For many years one of our Favorite Family Christmas Traditions was that Annette’s mom would bake loads of gingerbread and host all of the grandkids for a day of making Gingerbread Houses! As parents, we would all pitch in and buy different kinds of candy and gum for decorating the houses. We’d also help the younger kids as they built their houses.
Christmas Light Tour
Decorated Houses with Christmas Lights is another one of our favorite family Christmas traditions. Each year our newspaper runs a list of families who go all out decorating their homes with lights, characters, and music. We load up the van with our kids and some friends and do a driving tour of homes in our area. There are some favorites – like the one lady who has hundreds of nativities from around the world and a petting zoo of nativity animals. We bring hot cocoa and cookies and make a fun evening of ooohing and aaahing at the beautiful displays.
Family Christmas Traditions Through Music Listening
Annette loves Christmas music so much she plays a little of it every month starting in August, but by December the halls of our home are reverberating with carols non-stop. Check out our list of favorite holiday music here.
We have a special box full of our favorite Christmas flicks – some old classics and others new favorites. We watch at least one or two each week in December. Here’s a list of our favorite Christmas movies (with a few added by frugal friends like you).
Christmas Cookies / Quick Bread
Every year since about 1985 Annette has baked huge batches of Christmas cookies or pumpkin/banana bread to be given to family, friends, teachers, postmen and other service people. For about 6 years we hosted a neighborhood cookie exchange with our neighbors. We delivered invitations and had dozens of families attend. Each family brought 2 plates of cookies: 1 to swap and one to be eaten that night. After the cookie exchange, we lined up in a circle according to the number of years we’ve lived in the neighborhood and shared a little about our families.
Family Christmas Traditions through Presents
Most of the gift shopping is done throughout the year, so December is a time for pulling them out and wrapping. Even our kids had collections of gifts hidden away that they would give to their siblings and extended family.
When the kids were younger we would let them open one present each Saturday (usually from out of town relatives). It reduced the jumpiness that proceeded Christmas and allowed the kids to enjoy each gift and not feel so overwhelmed on Christmas Day.
Christmas Eve Traditions
Our Christmas Eve traditions include an extended family gathering for dinner (about 30 people). After dinner, Annette conducts the singing of Twelve Days of Christmas. Each person picks a number—one through twelve—along with the corresponding lyrics. Usually, it’s two people per number. We sing the entire song with multiple ad-lib performances and some very strange and original lyrics. We also have a white elephant gift exchange—we encourage each person to bring a gift of something they don’t need anymore that is in good condition. In recent years we have switched to an ornament exchange. There’s lots of strategizing, conniving, trading and of course, lots of laughter!
Christmas Day Traditions
Christmas Day is a total “jammie day.” No company, no chores, just family, movies, presents, board games and us. Steve always makes delicious cheese blintzes topped with blueberries and cherries—mmmmm! For dinner, it’s either roast leg of lamb or Pastichio (Greek lasagna), or Italian lasagna (get our lasagna recipe here. We have a friend that likes to do a taco bar with her family, so there is less time spent in the kitchen.
Traditions don’t need to be expensive or elaborate to be memorable.
From our family to yours, we wish you the most blessed Christmas of all times.
May your home be filled with hope, light, and family this year.
If you have time, we’d love to hear some of your favorite Christmas Traditions – could you share them below?
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